Sometimes a reader and a book are not a good fit, and it is okay to give up on a book. Sometimes it is a mattering of timing--right book, wrong time/mood. This week's Top Ten Tuesday topic is the Books I Did Not Finish (DNFed). I do not often give up on a book and so this list is fairly short. It could be that some have slipped from my memory, given the lack of impression they made on me. I last posted on this topic in 2015 from what I can tell (you can find that post here).
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A sweeping, emotionally riveting first novel - an enthralling family saga of Africa and America, doctors and patients, exile and home.
Several years ago, I attempted to listen to Cutting For Stone by Abraham Verghese, narrated by Sunil Malhotra. I enjoyed the few chapters of this audiobook I got through. Perhaps it was because my listening time was limited to 30 minutes at a time when I was able to fit it in and that was the problem. Of all the books on this list, Cutting For Stone is one I do hope to revisit, perhaps in print--so not really a DNF book for me, but more of a TAL (Try Again Later) book. I still think I will like this one when I do get around to reading it!
Chicago, 1920: Hadley Richardson is a quiet twenty-eight-year-old who has all but given up on love and happiness—until she meets Ernest Hemingway and her life changes forever. Following a whirlwind courtship and wedding, the pair set sail for Paris, where they become the golden couple in a lively and volatile group—the fabled “Lost Generation”—that includes Gertrude Stein, Ezra Pound, and F. Scott and Zelda Fitzgerald.
I looked forward to reading Paula McLain's The Paris Wife as it seemed like something I would really enjoy, but when I picked it up to read, I could not get into it. I liked the writing, but I could not bring myself to care about the characters or what was in store for them. For me, that's always the kiss of death for a book.
Don Quixote has become so entranced by reading chivalric romances that he determines to become a knight-errant himself. In the company of his faithful squire, Sancho Panza, his exploits blossom in all sorts of wonderful ways. While Quixote's fancy often leads him astray—he tilts at windmills, imagining them to be giants—Sancho acquires cunning and a certain sagacity. Sane madman and wise fool, they roam the world together, and together they have haunted readers' imaginations for nearly four hundred years.
When my husband was cast as Don Quixote in a ballet production my daughter's former dance studio was putting in 2019, I decided to give the novel, Don Quixote by Miguel de Cervantes Saavedra a try. I struggled with as much as I did manage to read, and in the end decided not to continue.
The first book of Jenny Colgan's delightful new four-part series, set at a charming English boarding school on the sea. Over the course of one year, friendships will bloom and lives will be changed forever. Life at the Little School by the Sea is never dull...
I had enjoyed two of Jenny Colgan books in the past and was really looking forward to reading this one when it won my August TBR poll in 2023. Welcome to the School by the Sea (Maggie Adair #1) by Jenny Colgan was a reprint of one of the author's earlier books, and I just could not get past the frequent negative references to one of the student's weight. If it had just been a bullying situation that was eventually resolved, it might have been different; but it wasn't just her peers comments, the teachers and staff could not help but comment on her weight as well, even if just amongst themselves. I read a few other reviews to see if the body shaming would be addressed--because then I might want to continue--but learned it wasn't and that I was not alone in being put off by it. While many people I know have read and enjoyed this book, I found myself pulled out of the story too often because of the comments on the child's weight to make it worth trying to continue.
At a time when society is more fractured than ever before, beloved Jesuit priest Gregory Boyle invites us to see the world through a new lens of connection and build the loving community that we long to live in—a perfect message for readers of Anne Lamott, Mary Oliver, and Richard Rohr.
Cherished Belonging: The Healing Power of Love in Divided Times Gregory Boyle came recommended to me earlier this year. It is not my usual type of read, but I was told it would bring me a bit of hope to an otherwise dark and divisive time in U.S. history and that it wasn't overly religious and would appeal even to those, like me, who aren't religious. Unfortunately, I did find it too heavy in religious themes and references for my taste. It is nothing against the author or the great work he has and continues to do for the community--he and I probably agree more than we disagree in our philosophies--just not on the faith aspect.
What books have you recently been unable to finish?
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I liked The Paris Wife, but I get why it wouldn't be for everyone.
ReplyDeleteLauren - I wanted to like The Paris Wife. It could have been a timing issue, but it's not one I have a desire to try again. At least not at this point. I know so many people who loved it though. Thank you for visiting!
DeleteI have the Colgan book on my TBR, as I enjoy reading her books. But I hesitate now after seeing your comments on it.
ReplyDeletePam @ Read! Bake! Create!
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Pam - It may not be an issue for you and you may love the book. The setting is perfect and I wish I would have been able to get past my issue with it. Thank you for stopping by!
DeleteI generally don't DNF so had to change the topic a bit!
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Emily - I do so rarely. Except for one which was a recent DNF, I had to go years back for the others just to come up with something for this list. LOL Thank you for visiting!
DeleteThese are all new to me ones. I rarely DNF these days, so I had to switch to my own topic for this week. Although oddly enough I did end up DNFing 1 book prior to writing this post but I didn't feel like writing a Top 1 Tuesday post for just that one title. I usually forget what books I might have DNF'd as I stopped even writing reviews for them too.
ReplyDeleteThe one I DNF'd was Margaret Owen's The Merciful Crow. It was a pacing issue and something of world-building and characters. I just couldn't get into the story despite trying.
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Jessica - I don't often DNF books either. I was a little excited when I had my first one this year because then I could add it to today's list. How sad is that? I had to really dig for the other three titles.
DeleteI am sorry to hear about The Merciful Crow. Not being able to get into the story makes it hard to want to continue. I am not sure I would have in that case either. Thank you for stopping by!
Wendy, not every book is for every reader. I totally agree with that and also think for me it's better not to 'make' myself finish a book that's not working for me. I think I had to read Don Quixote in college and I know I didn't really enjoy it. I have also read Cutting For Stone many years ago. Don't have much memory of it, but as it is quite a long book I think I liked it. In print though, not on audio. I think that the body issues in the Colgan book would bother me.
ReplyDeleteKay - I find that if I push myself to finish a book I am really not enjoying, I fall into a reading slump, so I try not to do that too often. Still, I do not find myself adding books to my DNF pile too often. My husband thinks it is because I look for the good in everything I read. LOL It took me many tries before I got through War and Peace and maybe I should dedicate the same effort to Don Quixote, but I just haven't felt the desire. I would like to try Cutting For Stone again someday though. I know better now what types of audiobooks work for me and which ones don't. Longer, slower ones, not so much. Thank you for visiting!
DeleteI read and enjoyed Cutting for Stone, Paris Wife, and Don Quixote. Of those, I'd recommend Don Quixote the most, maybe as a slow read.
ReplyDeleteBut, then again, not every book is for every person...
Deb - Maybe someday I will try Don Quixote again. I had planned for it to be a slow read--figured I could drag it out similarly to the way I did War and Peace and Les Misérables the year I read those, but I lost interest. I do want to try Cutting for Stone again one of these days. I really do think I would like that one. Thank you for stopping by!
DeleteDon Quixote is something I’ve heard good things about, but I’m not sure it would be my style, either.
ReplyDeleteLydia - I have heard good things about Don Quixote too. I've seen the musical and the ballet and know something of the story from those, so was hoping I would like the book. I tried. Thank you for visiting!
DeleteI don't really DNF so I changed this week's topic. I haven't read any of the books on your list. Jenny Colgan is an author I've been wanting to try bu I haven't yet.
ReplyDeleteYvonne - I like the topic you went with and now I want to go on a cruise. :-) I really enjoyed two of the Jenny Colgan books (I think they were both Christmas themed), and I think if I hadn't already had good experiences with her work, I might have been put off her work entirely by the one I couldn't get through. I hope you do enjoy whichever of her books you do read! Thank you for stopping by!
DeleteI have not read any of these. I went a different direction today.
ReplyDeleteCindy - I don't blame you. So many great books out there to look forward to! Thank you for visiting!
DeleteWendy, so true!
DeleteMost of these I don't know. I enjoyed The Paris Wife, but it's not favorite setting for a story or even historical figures I have opinions on one way or another. Thanks for sharing.
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Cheryl - I am glad you enjoyed The Paris Wife. I think I am in the minority on that one. :-) Thank you for stopping by!
DeleteI haven't read any of these but have DNF'd a Jenny Colgan. Normally I love her books but every once in awhile she has a big miss for me.
ReplyDeleteKatherine - I've had trouble picking up another of her books since that one DNF, which is sad because I really did enjoy the other two very much. One of these days, I will give her another try. Thank you for stopping by!
DeleteI think i tried the first one. Ugh I should give up on the two audios I have right now too
ReplyDeleteBlodeuedd - I'm sorry you are not enjoying the two audios you are reading right now. I have the opposite problem--I am really enjoying my current audio but haven't had time to listen to it in a couple days. :-( Thank you for visiting!
DeleteI haven't read any of these books, but they do sound like slogs to get through.
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Ronyell - They just weren't for me, I guess. Thank you for stopping by!
DeleteI haven't read any of these. Though I do have a longish list of books that I've DNFed. I usually stop reading a book because I either hate the characters, the dialogue is forced or the writing is trite, or the story is dragging and too slow.
ReplyDeleteLark - Those are all good reasons to DNF. Bad writing can do it for me too, especially if any of the other factors come into play as well. Thank you for visiting!
DeleteThe Paris Wife is the only book I’m familiar with. I don’t DNF very often either.
ReplyDeleteDon Quixote made my list too. I have DNFed it multiple times.
ReplyDeleteDon Quixote is on my TBR but the length makes me anxious about starting it, so I understand you not finishing it :)
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I haven't read any of these but I had The Paris Wife on my shelves and wound up donating it unread. That's too bad about the Jenny Colgan, I've read a few of hers too. This past February I DNF'd a self-help book called It Didn't Start With You, it was so bad I had to post about it too lol.
ReplyDeleteI read Cutting For Stone years ago, long before I started listening to audiobooks and really liked it. It was a chunky one though and I can see that it would not be for everyone. Not too bad a list, Wendy.
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